Cool As Ice ((exclusive)) -

In relationships, being "cool as ice" during an argument is useful. Being "cool as ice" during a moment of joy or grief is pathological. The master of ice knows when to let the sun melt the surface. The fool freezes solid and shatters.

The "ice king" or "ice queen" archetype can become a defense mechanism used to avoid intimacy. If you never react, you never get hurt. But you also never connect. True coolness is a tool, not a personality. cool as ice